How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
12.06.2025 12:38
Someone Disagree to reason, logic and rationality when I convince and Iam right.
Chewing Gum
Provocations is important to know in law , self defense in criminal matters. It's usually someone who is behaving “provocatively” in the word , speaking , writing , photos , etc , school , business , competition , body language or action ways close to you or from far away.
Why do people with trauma easily recognize other people with trauma through eye contact?
Not letting the door slam in anyone's face when you enter or exit a building.
Online Surfing In Class
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What was your worst experience while living with roommates?
Not Brushing Your Teeth
One more time I went to Kitchener police station to report the rooming house guys and thier harrsaments especially the Roman Prist. Again they told me Iam sick and I need to take medication. Police told me that I have the right to self defense if anyone bother me or come on my way or harrsaments. He was wondering why I don't defend myself and argue with poeple over my rights while I write about law and violation of my rights.
You’re never too old to learn something new.
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Picking Your Teeth In Public
Cheated
Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
Channel Island pharmacists confirm digestion drug shortage - BBC
Excessive Throat Clearing
Treat your subordinates , or people under low working class with due respect. Don't ill treat them just because you are in the top of the ladder. It will not take more time for life's wheel to turn the other way around.
Cheating on me . Framing me . Making up stories on my behalf. Selling me . All these are deadly triggers of anger in me .Discrediting my writings about violation of human rights against me .
Subject: provocations and subtle human rights violations.
Bushwhacked
m&m’s
Always speak the truth.
Offended
Being Late
Senate to Review Trump ‘Revenge’ Tax Worrying Wall Street - Bloomberg
Chewing On Your Hair
When someone take the credit of my hard work , music , writing , art, etc and call me the one who's the thief. Outrageous.
Do not clean your ear with pen or pencil. It too feels yuk.
Always protect your siblings (and teammates).
Share food.
Do not try to listen to two persons talk.
Weed may be bad for your heart, whether you smoke or consume edibles - Live Science
Not Moisturizing
Forcing me to love or be loyal to someone or some groups.
Cracking Your Knuckles
Why are the bands Smashmouth and Nickelback often used as punchlines?
Leaving The Fridge Open
Eating White Sugar
Screwed
How do you leave a relationship when you are still in love?
Leaving Your Wallet / Keys In Random Places
Chewing With Mouth Open
When a woman or a man that I don't like comes close to me or touch me or talk to me or message , signal me etc .
Do not wink a lot while conversing.
Victimized
Spread positivity
Don't hurt your parents.
All Work And No Play
Be big enough to recognize when you are wrong, and humble enough to say you are sorry.
They make noise around you when you busy your self with internet. They want you to look at poeple or around yourself. Sometimes when you look at beautiful women , they send a Stinky street guy or 2 to come around you and disgust your appetite and make loud noises around you or threaten you. They make you leave the public and run or fistfight them and face the consequences. This can happen even in a relationship or at work.
You have manners and considerations that go hand in hand to behave excellent mostly in your daily life especially when interacting with people.
To deny someone from having fun and to play in between him/ her and his family , friends and lovers and break them apart. To disrespect people. To withhold sex , or other sweet and important things from someone to get them become angry.Screaming children. Too many incoming phone calls and texts at once. Constant Loud noises. The neighbour’s noise and barking dogs.
Annoying People On Purpose
Chastised
Spending On Credit Cards
Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
It's violation. It's espionage. It's not coincidence. It's violation of human rights. In fact Espionage doesn't bother me ( you can't stop it by the way . How ? ) when someone is only spying at me to look at my pines or the way I sleep or sex . Because I don't do nothing illgal in my room. And I don't have hidden crimes from the past . But , what bothers me about espionage is the coordinating of the sophisticated spy with his/her team to come on my way walking or biking or by car , screeching , intimidating or sending them waiting around corners in the public , lurke to hit me with the door of a store I go to or the place I walk by or when if Iam walking wrong side at light or in the streets. They send poeple on my who look like poeple I know from Iraq . It makes me wonder and think if that's him/her or not . It distract my mind from focusing on my walking and traffic rules momentarily.
Take advantage of me .
Injured
Hypocrisy of poeple.
When you are offered something for eating while sharing, take just a little.
Not interrupting people when they are talking.
Eating Dairy
Jilted
Sitting Too Close To The T.V
Checking Your Hair / Eyebrows / Makeup / Nails
When I am innocent doing something good and someone Cutts me off won't let me continue.
Learn how to grill well.
Watching T.V Right After Work
Interpreting my conversation.
If someone ignore me when they are not supposed to.
When someone spy on me for no good reason.
Eavesdropping
Heart-broken
Do not use other person's towel, comb, kerchief etc.
Leaving The Heat On When You Go Out
Yelling At Your BF/GF
Skipping Class
Manner means be polite, thankful when helped , respected and to be thoughtful about the needs of others too when you see them need something and you can help them . You can at least avoid hurting them or adding more salt to thier injuries. It means To act and speak humbly, thoughtfully and politely at gatherings. It's opposite to be rude , arrogant ruthless , ignorant and inconsiderate.
You marry the girl, you marry her family.
Psychology, law and ethics
Furthermore , as a part of sucide program they use , For example , I suffer . I panhandle. I live in dirty places . Iam injured. Nobody compensated me. I nice music and post it online , the same haters criminals who have hurt me and covered up , paying rooming house guys addicts to desrespect me and cut off my internet. They continue slamming the doors to distract me mixing music or sleeping. They spy on me through my electronics and wireless camiras inside my room and they coordinator thier walking on my way on the halls to washrooms as soon as I get out . It has happened like this more than 20 times . It's hate . It's mind control. It's nerve racking.
But , Iam still aware. As soon as a car or bike or a dog or a thug comes close to me , I run away from them . If I was an aware I would have been hit by car long time ago or I would hurt someone and go to jail. But I avoid it. Though everyone tells me coward , but I call it taking precautions with bad poeple.And I report it too. I have survived many close car accident against me in Kitchener. Many times. Police know about it . But they think it's my fault because I smoke weed .
Freeloading
The secretive plan of provoking you to become angry starts by first finding your weak points , spying on you , daily , and sending or setting up their guys on your ways or at places you go . Spying is done by first they bug your communication, watch your moves , and listen to what you say and realize your points of weakness and what bothers you. They then develop a dialogue to irritate those point. Then they double down on the attack and repeat those points until they get a reaction. Then they refine the points to get bigger reactions. Once the reaction gets to be huge - expect a punch in the nose.
Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.
Make ugly and disgusting noises close to me .
Tortured
Skipping The Gym
Do not drink the water directly from bottle ( touching mouth), if it is others.
Always try not to talk to someone wearing headphones or earphones in public.
Brutalized
Don’t let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
Belching
Always chew with your mouth closed.
Annihilated
Do not suddenly speak in between,when two people are talking.
Dejected
Emotional Eating
Alcohol (if you think you may be an alcoholic, please get professional help)
Dishonest and unfair treatment.lies that causes big harms emotionally and physically or financially.
Use thankyou as often as you can.
To show up late and keep someone waiting. To not live up to what you are supposed to live up to . To break promise. To let down someone. To mislead and betray someone. To violate someone’s rights. To make someone uncomfortable with bad smells and bad body language moves. To deny someone opportunity to have , peace , privacy , work, friends , food , shelter medical services etc . To muffle someone’s voice. To discredit their honest and clean work . To give someone more work than what they are supposed to do . To corner someone.
Nibbling While Cooking
Don't desrespect me. If you don't know , now you know. There are many things and type of people who can get into someone's nerves and push them to become very angry to the point where they shout , break staffs , or beat or even kill the person or people who are hurting his / her nerves on and on . But there is a difference between becoming angry for a good reason and being angry for a bad reason.
Speeding
Binge Watching Netflix
Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
Pained
Leaving The Toilet Seat Up
Not Showering
Don't stand infront of someone close to their face while they are sitting.
Talking During Movies
Losing Focus
Fidgeting
If the teacher forgets to check for homework and your friend forgot to do it, you do not, under any circumstances, ask “Wasn’t there homework due today?”
Excessive Salt
Being An Attention Hog
Also , Ontario housing of Canada refused to give me housing as a person who smoke weed and dirty. The Barzani's family and Canadian Government has a hand in it . If I call police , like I have done it before calling police of Kitchener. Officer hunter was investigating my complain about espionage and the rooming house guys . He told me that I have been hallucinated because I smoke weed . Nobody spy on me . He advised me to go to doctor take my medication and sleep. He said that is the only you can deal with hallucinations paranoia and feel mental stable without accusing poeple of spying on you. Poeple are busy.
YouTube
Betrayed
Humiliated
Don't take for granted ,the sharing of food with intimate friends in the same plate. They may not like it.
Tapping Fingers/Pens/Etc.
Write down your dreams.
Licking Your Lips
Hold the umbrella and offer your arm.
Talking About Your Sister Behind Her Back
Blocking my vision.
Spending Too Much Time Online
Don't touch others while speaking.
Abased
Say sorry whenever necessary.
When Iam eating and someone talk or show dirty disgusting staffs , or making puking , irritating noises , ugly disgusting words , images , moves , body language etc .
Telling Secrets
Always hold the door open for others.
Playing Kingdom Rush
Damaging my good work record.
Abused
Never turn down a breath mint.
Invisible
Respect other people’s property. Return borrowed pencils, don’t smudge their phone if you use it, and pay back loans from your friends.
This is kouhan Fatah speaking about things and type of poeple who make me angry. Don't forget it . It's important. If you take it as a joke, you are responsible for my anger .
Persecuted
Repeating Yourself
Watching Reality Television
What are some bad habits we all have?
When someone threat me when I am innocent.
Pencil Chewing
Being A Know-It-All
Biting Your Disgusting Toe Nails
When I am sleeping and sick or very tired or need sleep to function.
Crushed
Exaggerating
After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
Ask if you can help.
Going To The Club
While shaking hands, press a little,shake, hold for two seconds and then leave.
Forgetting Names Of People You Meet
Flaking Out
Sleeping-in
To lie and deceive someone. To play with the emotions of someone. To take their belongings and not bring back . To boss then around. To dig into their private life. To embarrass them in any possible way.
Putting Dishes In Sink And Not Washing Them
Staying Up Late
How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?
Buzz-friggin’-feed
Calling me masochist or labeling me and sticking different mental sicknesses on me . While I am not.
Someone who repeat the same mistakes against me .
Fiddling With Keys
Never ever open a close colleague's bag ( females) without the permission.
In my case when Iam nice , they are rude , when I am.polite. When I clean and shower or have a little bit of money , they don't look at me or come around me . When I stink and look dirty and slowly clumsy , they send the most beautiful girls half naked to my way . She smiles and Show you her sexy staffs. But , you stink . The psychopaths go on more as when you say hello , they ignore you. When you ignore them , they say hello to you. When you are nice to them , They're mean to you. When you are mean to them, they are nice to you. When you are happy , they become angry with you. When you are angry , they joke with you ..They must always keep you on edge never let you have peace.
If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.
Don't give bad looks to poeple if you have no good reason.
Quora
Emotional Shopping
Overspending
While using a public toilet, leave the toilet dry and clean.
Day Dreaming
Show gratitude to God for all you have in life.
Use polite words.
Assaulted
Using Your Maiden Name
Taking responsibility for actions.
Coming to close to my face .
Talking In Class
Eating Past 8 P.M
Skin Picking
Obsessively Checking iPhone/iPad
Ridiculed
Video Games
Horking
Watching Seinfeld Reruns
Shoplifting
Do not hang the phone suddenly after speaking, close it with a bye or thank you.
Bleeding
Scratching An Itch
Opening Countless Tabs
Using Your Phone In Bed
When your friend shows you a picture on their phone, don’t scroll/swipe to other photos.
When there is a queue, wait for your chance, don't barge.
Blocking my way .
Being Argumentative
Oppressed
An example is , Secret intelligent agencies spy on you. Thier teams who are Sick poeple want you to turn you into a sucide bomber or into kill your self play this game with you. The hater and control freak.l mafia agency don't stop the mind games and torure , unless they see you stopping to look at poeple or go close to poeple. And also see you growing beard and stink and go in deep thoughts , wonder. , make mistakes , don't pay attention to cars , etc . little mental game of cat and mouse. When you look at them , they look away . When you don't look at them , they stand up walk close to you and show you some sexiness of butt or cleavage , legs etc. When you put your head down , they make loud noises around you or call your name without looking at you. Or shout at something to make up your head again.
When you make a phonecall to someone,you tell your name, the name of person you want to speak to and the reason you have called up. Don't ask others name.
Drinking Coffee
If you need music on the beach, you’re missing the point.
Stand up to bullies. Protect those bullied.
When someone come to visit me or knock on my door or bang my door or shout behind my door , or disturb me , for no good reason , I really become angry.
If you are coughing and you have to clean your throat, go to the toilet and do it.
Eating Too Fast / Not Chewing
Loitering
Eating Candy
There are many abusive people that use different psychological techniques abusive and none abusive techniques to get into your nerves and make you angry and even push you to commit crimes . Asking too many stupid questions to someone intelligent. Repeating the same topics and conversation . unwanted Touching. Staring at someone for long time. Cutting you off your sources of happiness or while you talk to someone can really make you go nuts. Invasion of your space for example when someone comes too close to you unexpectedly, or stands in the doorway , when you are in hurry and need to go through, you feel the beginnings of violent panic.
While talking, do not sound too loud or too low.
Don’t try to impose your opinions on others. If you think the guy’s opinion is problematic, talk/debate formally.
In other words, any hyper vigilance towards them is dropped by you, then they are up to their shenanigans again, most likely planning a way to get a boost of supply from you, sometimes unexpectedly.And if you distance yourself, whether physically or emotionally, they must pull you back in. They will never leave you alone. You will see it in the haters and narcissist’s eyes, that haunted look of someone who never lived, someone who wanders the earth restlessly, wanting to be the best, but always failing because they don't put in the effort. They are mostly slavery masters and human dealers.
When someone bother me for no good reason.
Try to stand when greeting.
Talking To Yourself
Skipping Meals
You do not tell anyone the name of a friend’s crush if there exists a chance that that person may tell the crush.
Disrespected
When Iam in the middle of doing a very important work.
Respect your teachers….who always force us to the next level.
Manners maketh the man.
You do not leave a friend on read, opened (Snapchat), or seen. However, not opening a text, Snap, DM, or other message is okay.
Never be too busy for a friendly visit or much needed ear.
Usually snobbish are inconsiderate . Because they consider themselves to be above most people and need to be catered to. I hope that isn’t so, but you will not win friends and influence people if you proceed with your stated response.
Impersonating me.
Devalued
Don't get jealous of anyone.
Always offer to pay, and be ready to pay.
Grinding Your Teeth
The Ultimately , they want to see you rape , kill ,jump at poeple, run after whores , punch or kill yourself or grow beard and put your head down and go to mosque or church. It's human trafficking business. If you become sick from peace , privacy , and mind games exhausted , from there doctors and police ambulance would take you over . They look you up at mental health services hospital. They call you dangerous to the public. To leave someone alone , and respect thier rights means you need to stop doing all of these subtle and obvious violations of human rights against poeple like me .
Kissing & Telling
Someone hurt me and Don't admit mistakes.
Procrastinating
Whining
Throw that chocolate wrapper in the dust bin, do not litter.
Do not spit or throw garbage on the road or in public.
Borrowing And Not Returning Items
Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her.
If you see a guy peeing into a urinal, and there are open urinals all around him, don’t use the urinal right next to him.
Forgotten
Apologize , if it's your mistake. Yes, you should do it.
Do not dig your nose with your finger for cleaning , in the public.
Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.
Losing Your Temper
Cheek Biting
You may eat once everyone is seated at the table and the cook has lifted his/her fork off of the napkin.
Try to mind your own business unless somethings affects you directly.
Always say thank you and write a thank you note.
If you are in advanced classes, tell your friends which ones are actually worth taking. Do not ever try to academically sabotage your friends.
Thumb Sucking
Biting Fingernails
Kouhan Fatah
Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath.
Diminished
Rebuffed
While coughing or sneezing, cover it with a kerchief.
Restrict my freedoms.
Open the car door for your passenger.
Picking Fights
Hair Pulling
If someone cut off my sources of legit fun , life interests , and health cure .
When someone cut me off my good friend, poeple lovers etc for no good reason.
Eat lunch with the new kid.
Take your hat off when you enter the house.
Conditioning love sex relationships to aggressive behaviour or money or gun using.
Taking off your sunglasses when people are talking to you so that they can see your eyes.
When someone accuse me of being sick when I am not.
Not Protecting Yourself From The Sun
Hacking my Facebook account.
Lying
Snubbed
Drinking Tea
Copying
Deprived
And most importantly , wars , human poverty ,human rights abuse , Racism , discrimination , lack of rule of law , democracy , freedom and justice are biggest reasons that can cause anger for someone. But after all anger is supposed to be controlled under any circumstances and should not lead to crimes unless beyond your power and out of no choice. Depending what makes you angry and whether you are right or wrong.
What do people frequently do in public that get on your nerves? What makes me angry?
Neglected
Skipping Breakfast
Damaged
While talking to a colleague in office, don't try to look into his computer screen and don't try to read his mails etc. It's for him not for you.:). Respect people's privacy.
Not Holding Eye Contact
Tormented
Eating Meat
Sleeping With Makeup
Finishing People’s Sentences
Saying “Yes” To Everything
Humming To Yourself
When you are given someone's mobile for speaking, clean/ rub it with your palm before putting it on to your ears and after you are finished speaking, repeat the same and return it back.
Play with passion or don’t play at all.
Don't talk back.
In a restaurant, when you want to pull the chair from another person's table, ask for his permission.
Pocari Sweat From Japan (seriously, if you drink this for 2 or 3 days your body will crave it instead of water)
Using Slang
Biting Your Pen
Laughed at
Don't grab people's belongings and goodies.
A sport coat is worth a thousand words.
According to Google that “ Consideration means having empathy for another person and conducting yourself through thoughtful behaviour when interacting with someone else and looking at them in a clean heart way , without having or developing bad hidden motives towards them while you are talking or looking at them, at least nuetural heart if not humane and polite heart.
Never shake a man’s hand sitting down. It's rude.
Slouching While Walking
If you see your friend trying to talk to a girl/guy, leave them alone. Asking them about it later, and having them go into detail about that interaction is not required, but highly recommended.
Playing with my mind and emotions. Or seducing me . Stabbing me from the back .
Pinching Pennies
Why do we feel hurt emotionally by words and signals or action of others?
Don't shake hands with wet hands.
Blamed
Eating Fast Food
Letting Fear Stop You From Trying Something New
Breaking Promises To Yourself
Lots of poeple provoke me to shout and disrespect in the public. They desrespect me emotionally. Or financially and phisically. Sometimes severely in a big and serious dangerous way and sometimes in a small harmful ways , like spiitin on me or swearing or coming around me threatening and leave , or sexually desrespect me through body language b, words , etc or humiliate me infront of women and friends. At the end someone must do something bad like this to provoke me into a bad reaction and response. But fairly. I desrespect just as they do . But , don't desrespect fairly. They hurt me phiscally too.
Don't stick your body to the body of others without asking permission or having a relationship with.
Gambling
Don't compare yourself to others also don't compare others to anyone.”””…
Waiting you your turn in line and not pushing in.
Littering (really, stop littering)
Dragging me into fights arguments.
Gossiping
Put down
Don't listen when I clearly and loudly say " stop the desrespect and back off.
Slighted
Not Flossing
Conning me , ripping me off .
Saying “Ummm” And “Ahhh”
Falling Asleep In Class
Eating When You Are Bored
Speak politely amd softly.
When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
Chewing Tobacco
Monopolizing A Conversation
Don’t look in your phone when someone is speaking to you.
When someone makes a dirty mess like in the rooming house guys, in the washrooms , kitchen etc and accuse me of being dirty.
When someone humiliate and desrespect me in the public or inside for no good reason.
When a woman accuse me of being obsesed with her and love her , and Iam not.
Celling bangs and squeaky floors.
Masturbating
When someone accuse me of being a gay or a spy and I am not.
Encourage the culture of gangsters and wars by using coward, pussy , dishonorable , words and Labels mong men to provoke.
Talking to me loudly.
Ignored
Be confident and humble at the same time.
According to Google:
Bragging
Different people become angry for different reasons. Those who become angry for good reasons are fighting human rights abuse , but those who become angry for bad reasons are stupid and should not become angry or else they should be put medication or anger management classes and even jail and probation if they become violent and dangerous towards others .
Popping Zits
Over Medicating
If you go towards a group and they suddenly change their topic, better to leave them alone.
Name Dropping
Invasion of privacy and space.
One-Upping
Eating Cookies Every Damn Day
Plotted against me .
What are some proper manners for everyday life?
You do not spread gossip/news unless it is trivial, but if it’s not about any of your friends, well…
Do not move hands while speaking.
Skipping Work
If someone cuts off my basic needs .
Being able to swallow pride and actually making an honest apology when you honestly offend someone or do something that affects them in a bad way instead of trying to find a way to put the blame back on them.
Defeated
Eating Chocolate
Wronged
Forgetting To Shave
Negative Self Talk / Self Criticism
Do not make sound while sipping tea or soup or while eating.
Spying on my private conversations.
Picking Your Nose
Respect people regardless of their job.
Being a polite driver.
Spying on you and Stealing your private life information and spreading it to people. Spreading rumours about . To Scare off someone. To tease , poke , touch and bug someone on and on . To make fun of someone's life , appearance and things they have. To beat someone. To insult someone. To frustrate someone , to turn people against someone. To put pressure on someone at work . To force someone to do something for you. To cut him / her off something they enjoy doing it.
Afflicted
Bullying People
Giving Away “Tells” In Poker
Drinking Soda/Pop
Using Devices At Night
Being Unfriendly
Wash your handa before eating.
Rambling
If you are entering someone room/ cabin, knock before entering and seek permission.
While coming in and going out, leave the door gently, don't bang.
Don't make loud noises around poeple if you don't have a good reason like work and duties.
Forgetting What You’ve Told Someone
Arranging Instead of Cleaning
When you let your guards down, open up your trust towards them, allow your boundaries to become relaxed . You want to have sex , they call you slut or a dirty stud . Or they sex the girl and vice versa , take advantage of you and leave. Or they shut you off emotionally By being rude , hard to talk to . When you leave them alone , they make noise , charming , staffs , switching off suddenly, and being too Sweet or again too busy for you.
Invalidated
Fiddling With Your Hair
Intimidated
Deflated
Do not appreciate my hard work and help.
Hoarding
Popping Gum
Punched
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While calling the lift, press only once .Have a little patience the lift would come.
If someone expect something from me and they are not supposed to. I hate it .
Drinking Energy Drinks
Trolling Comments
Not being sexist or racist.
Not texting while you are talking to someone.
Picking Scabs
Again , this another way to encourage poeple to argue and encourage fights between me and poeple rather than peace justice and avoidance of problems and bad poeple. The problem is Iam not getting desrespected by more than one person . And it's not only once in a month or a year. It's every 2 to 3 days . It happens systematically with espionage and teach downs of my movements. I am sending my privacy right violations and reporting it to RCMP and police of Canada . If they continue calling me sick and hallucinated. And if they ignore investigating it . And if it happens more , I would have a solid justification to continue writing , talking and the Barzani's family , Kurds , police and Canada whenever I get desrespected.
Drinking From The Carton
Sticking bad and negative adjectives and names on me while I am not.
Its because of the self-identity, and life , property , money , title popularity, position, social status , family , house , car , business , girlfriend, husband, children, appliances, cash , jweils , powers , reputation, we have worked for ( spent body members energy , time and money on it for long ) and created for ourselves. It is the self-image that we have. For example, let’s just say, I identify myself as a good writer and someone comments on how bad I write, I would be hurt. But I must really be a good writer with reputation, recognition and good work so I can feel hurt. Otherwise it's not hurt . It's critics that embarrsing you . And you shouldn't developed hate or become angry and revengeful about it . Example of situations where someone hurt your feelings for some reason:
Use and abuse me.
Spitting
Not staring at strangers in public.
Here you go, here is the list of self defense tools .
Aching
Slouching At The Computer
When a woman accuse me of stalking her or talking bad about her , and I don't.
In office, when you go to your colleagues place/ bay for talking, do not pull the other colleagues chair for seating. If you do so, leave the chair for him as soon as he comes.
Rejected
If you have borrowed pen etc. from someone in office, return it before you are asked for it.
When shaking hands, grip firmly and look the person in the eye.
Return things within time.
Snacking
Licking Your Fingers
If a person who is extremely stupid , dangerous , sick , no manner , no respect , crminalistic , potentially or not , or lazy has an impact on my life. Might be some of his activities that he or she hurt or procrastinates delays my life , my rights , my important task , it will also make me angry.
When someone spread ugly insulting, made up and fabricated testimonies, stories , accusations , CGI video , or private matters , morphed photos recording , voice etc about me.
In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
Give credit.
Overeating
Burned
When a man sexually touch.
D.on't pull others down. Lift them up.
Not Doing Your Homework
If your friend/ colleague has given you his mobile to show a pic etc.just see that pic and return the phone, don't start browsing his entire album.
Complaining
It's clear poeple who look for your weak points of life , personality , are powerful , capable spies have everything to use against you to stop you from critic doing of those who you critique or embarrss in your speaking and writing. They lose business , followers , powers and fans whom they use and abuse. . They are harmful, without empathy, hate criticism, are envious, want to put you down to make them better and are very sick and disordered people. They have to win, be better than and make you look worse than they do for their ego’s which need constant feeding. Don’t stay in these relationships. It will hurt you in the long run.
Agonized
Don't talk to poeple rudely if you have no good reason.
Porn Watching
Eating Gluten
And finally , people also become angry when No one listen to you . Everyone try to make you come off as lair even when you speak the truth. They dominant your conversation. They make loud noise while you are sitting at a place eating or drinking. Loud noise around where you live to deny you sleep.Being treated unfairly , not having money , work , a good clean place for living or having Pain , injuries , bad memories , sickness can also make someone angry.
Interrupting Someone
Make your bed.
Squashed
They hit your weak points deliberately to get a reaction out of you, either good or bad. That is their intent when they start provoking you or prodding you to make you angry on purpose, and they soak it in and feel a smidgen of satisfaction and joy from getting you all worked up for no reason.They photo and video you at that moment and use it as an evidence to call you sick and dangerous. They use it as a justification to spy on you as a dangerous person. And your rights are violated on daily basis under such bad excuses.They never want you to have peace. Until you run or end up in the hospital , jail., courts.
Gaming In Class
Insulted
Poor Hygiene
Don't be offended by criticism. Take it seriously, not personally.
Calling me dump , stupid and restarted. Calling me rapist , Homosexual , woman hater , family destroyer , dangerous really makes me angry. Discrimination in all its kind. Harmful jealousy. Blackmail. Bully business. Weaponizing sex and work respect , peace etc .
They come with dogs , to desrespect me with a rude word or spit at me or close and loud around me , or humiliate or swears or outer intimidating, threats , aggressive body language moves , insults , or at public places , keep me waiting or touch me from behind or front or side or come to my face to provoke me for an argument or fight or take an inderect picture with me without my permission or come to talk to me to make someone else think we are framing someone or slandering someone.
Speaking With Your Mouth Full
Biting Your Lips
Being Overly Critical
The only time we need to use the word “provoked” is in right and fair logical , self defense with enough evidence , explaining for some action logically and fairly , we took, ( hurt and damage emotionally , phiscally finicially ) and as the reason to justify those actions and be set free from wrong judgment and guilt.
Poeple who push your bottons and provoke you to become angry are sick . They want to slowly kill you from an anger stroke , high blood pressure , jail , fights ,hospitals , isolation , and hate of others , because you are angry.They don't go after the real abusive predators, who they seem to not only kill freedom of speech and critics of the victim of human rights abuses , but also get an endorphin rush/self-satisfaction/control in playing with their prey. It's just who they are and what they do. In my case it's the Barzani's family and Canadian intelligent agency doing provocations to me for over 12 years .